what really grinds me gears: greek edition....

i feel like i always start my blog with "ok sooooo" or just "soooo" o well, on with the post....soooo i was in facebook looking at pics on the atlanta greek picnic's page and i realized somethings...i know everybody wasnt able to know what greek org they wanted to be apart of since birth like me however, some people just dont know when to keep their mouth shut...i dont understand how certain people can freely express their interest to be in one org and then change their minds and then talk shit about the org they used to want to be apart of...now people have told me that they have come to college not quite sure what org they want to be in, or they have more than one in mind, and then certain things happen to make them make their decision (or certain orgs just arent on the yard, so they go for the their second choice)...and i feel like is natural to be curious about different orgs and be well informed about what the organization they choose to join.....

however lately i have been noticing a lot of people who tell everybody what org they want to be apart of, how they cant wait till they get in, and even contacting some of the members in the org...and then some day they wake up and want to join another org, the sad thing is the most of the time its never for a legit reason...sometimes it they dont like a certain person in that org or they dont think they can get into that org...all bullsh*t...if you really want to be in a greek org, you will do WHATEVER it takes to be apart of that org and if you settle for another org for a bullshit reason, you are doing yourself and the org a disservice....

i respect no greek that joins an org for the colors, the performing, or the sterotype...before i became greek i had alot of women in my life that were delta's actually i didnt even personally know any AKA's, even my mentor during my freshman year was a delta...but i knew even before i got to college i wanted to be an AKA, the history, the principles, and the women that founded the organization let me know from the begning what D9 org i wanted to be apart of....

but i digress...i forgot what the hell the post was about anyway...the moral of the blog...if you want to be in a D9 that fine and dandy, but know the real reason why and make sure you understand it is a life-long commitment, even if you dont join a grad chapter after you graduate you will still be apart of the org for life....

and the church said....amen